Guest post by Challenger Sandra Brandt
“I had an off day”. This little sentence doesn’t seem to influence your and my day., but it does. What if you could wake up everyday and everything goes as it should go. It’s your day, you are in the flow!
It’s there, the flow. Always! But you have to get it, but how?
Imagine that you can force yourself into flow. You just DO things instead of thinking about it, everything goes well, mind and body working together
That was my question, how do I get into this flow?
The first thing I tried was creating positive thoughts after each negative one. This way I could stop the negative cycle of thoughts. By doing this I needed to be conscience of my thoughts. The first days it was like some kind of meditative state and it’s result was a calmness I enjoyed for being in the moment. I felt the wind and heart the birds singing.
But there wasn’t any flow. Negative thoughts were rising again.
After doing this for some days, the beginners rush was over and I had to motivate myself to do it. Should I persist this way or should I try an other method?
I tried an other road. The attention to the negative thoughts made them bigger. Everything what gets your attention, grows. So I shifted my attention to the positive thoughts. This worked! For a couple of days. I was drawn to more positive things even my partner noticed it.
Several days later I got shortage of sleep caused my small (little) children. This was a turning point in my attention. How should I go further?
I needed help! And I got it on Twitter and mail. A whole need step for me, asking help for myself. And it was great! Of all the people joining the 30 days challenge-site, I was the one with the most support!
20 days left in my 30 days challenge and still not able to get the flow. I shifted my attention again. First my attention was to the negative thoughts, then at the positive and now I shifted to the flow itself.
Today I could CHOSE for flow. Just do, collaboration between mind and body. No disturbing discussions in my mind. Just by CHOSING? Is it that simple? Yes, just CHOSE for it!